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My video response!

   Do you remember last week when I mentioned the incredible campaign that Redbook and Resolve were hosting? (You can read The Truth About Trying post to learn more about it!) Well they would like you to post a video to share your truth about trying and tell everyone what you wish you had known. So after many takes, (finding quiet time in my house with three kids 4 and under isn’t easy!) and trying to figure out how to best upload my video, I finally got one I thought was response worthy and uploaded it! I stumble a bit through it but I thought this one sounded the most natural. Anyway, here it is…


Now I hope you will share your own! It really can be so liberating to open up and share your thoughts. So speak up! ;-)

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Pregnancy and Infant Loss Remembrance Day

Did you know that today, October 15th, is Pregnancy and Infant Loss Remembrance Day? It’s a day to remember and honor all those that lost their lives much too soon through miscarriage, ectopic pregnancy, still birth or infant death and lend support to all the parents, grandparents, families and friends involved. Tonight, at 7pm in all time zones, all over the world, please light a candle for one hour to create a wave of light and show your support.

After two different IVF cycles, I experienced a chemical pregnancy, which is a very early miscarriage. Both times, they were heart wrenching to know I finally achieved a pregnancy after so much work, sweat and tears only to have it end so quickly. I can only imagine how incredibly painful it must be to lose a child much later on in pregnancy or worse, after the baby is born. So, today, I’m saying a prayer for everyone who has experienced this kind of loss. My heart goes out to you.

 If you’d like to know more about today, go to Remembering Our Babies, a site to create support, education, and awareness.

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Fertility Preservation

    It’s Breast Cancer Awareness Month and for this Fertility News Friday, I wanted to link to an article from Fertile Action. It’s an article about the many questions you may have when it comes to cancer and your fertility. If you or someone you know is struggling through cancer and need some options, check this out and pass it along! With knowledge, we have power.

Frequently Asked Questions on protecting your fertility

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September ICLW!

  Hello out there and welcome to my corner of the Internet! I am so excited that Fall is here and I’m looking forward to some fall foliage as I drive into Connecticut today for a family wedding. I’ve been writing this blog for nearly 2 years, shortly after my miracle twins were born via IVF. I also have a daughter who was my first IVF miracle and she is now 4 1/2. I recently wrote a memoir about my journey that I am self publishing and it will be out soon. It’s called Ordinary Miracles and I’m very excited about it!

  It’s PCOS awareness month and I’m having a  PCOS Awareness giveaway you should check out! (Not a lot of people have entered…hint, hint!) And there’s been lots of great information, success stories, and bloggers all related to PCOS this month, so stay around for a while and catch up! ;-)

  I wanted to link to another great site today for Fertility News Friday. The site has a wealth of info. Go to: Your Guide to PCOS. Happy Reading!

 P.S. I’m still looking for guest bloggers to share their experiences with PCOS. If you’re interested in writing a post for this blog this month, contact me at sfinfertility@optimum.net.  

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Lovin’ PCOS Support!

  Since it’s PCOS Awareness month, I am putting a different spin on my usual blog love post this week. I decided to feature supportive sites that can help you get through the trials of PCOS.

First up, I’m loving the Laughing Sage Wellness Group. Their mission is to “debunk myths around women’s chronic gynecological issues and to teach women how to have better health and better sex through their (our) nine-step proprietary nutritional and lifestyle protocol.” You can begin your journey by filling out a questionnaire to sign up for a free 30 minute phone consultation. Check it out!

   Next, I’m loving  Fertility Authority and it’s PCOS Awareness Month page. It has a wealth of great articles from Learning More About PCOS to Myths and Facts. Definitely take some time to peruse these and then report back! ;-)

 

And last, I’m loving Sasha Ottey from PCOS Challenge. She has a newsletter that you should look into for a personal story.  Plus her site offers expert help and awareness videos. You should definitely check this out as well!

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Friday Friend Link-up ~ Virtual Friends

  So, I’m going to put this post up a day early so you have extra time to link up! If you’re not familiar with what’s going on, it’s Friends Month here on Stress Free Infertility! I would love for you to share the love and write a heart-felt post about one, more than one, or all of your internet buddies, your loyal & supportive followers on Twitter (and FB) and your besties all over the ALI community! Write your hearts out and link up! Don’t forget to link back here so that others can follow along, join in the fun, and read each other’s posts! Thanks! ;-)



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Success, Info for friends, and a Survey

     So, I have to admit that I’ve been dissappointed about no one linking up for a post about an IRL friend. I suppose it’s either because a) no one had time, b) no one is around/maybe vacationing, c) no one has an IRL friend that really supported them. But, that’s okay because you have a chance to redeem yourselves this week. I am 100% positive that you have made connections with virtual friends online! So, write up a quick post about one or more of them this week and link up on Friday, then you can get more readers and we can share the love!

  OK, this week, I don’t have a new success story. (If you’ve been successful, I would love to share your story! Go here for the details!) But I do have a great article I’m linking to that’s written by Ryan Jacobson who had success through adoption. It’s also a great resource to send to your friends as a piece of advice on things they can do for you. It’s just what I want to accomplish in my new book idea~(writing to the fertile world about the trials and tribulations of infertility, sort of a ‘guide’ on what to do and say and what not to do and say). And, with that in mind, I created a survey that I hope you can pass along to your fertile friends and family members. It will help me gather information for the book. Thanks so much! And don’t forget to write up those posts, honoring your virtual friends! ;-) By the way, have you taken my poll?

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It’s Friday Friend Link Up (IRL friends)

 

OK! I hope many of you are ready to link up your posts about some of the wonderful friends you have in real life who have supported you through your infertility journey! I can’t wait to read them!

Next week (August 19th) we will link up posts about our virtual friends (so pick one or as many as you want to feature) and in 2 weeks (August 26th), we’ll pay homage to our furry friends! Ok, time to link up!

Please make sure to link to the actual post and not just your blog’s home page! ;-)



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To Lie or not to Lie? That is the question!

  I hope you’re all getting your IRL friend post ready to link up to on Friday. And if you’re not sure what I’m talking about go here! ;-)

 In the mean time, I wanted to take a little poll about the friends you have in real life. I know that many of you are very private people. And you probably dish so much more information online in a virtual world where you feel understood. But there are also many of you that share your struggles with your real friends. I was quite open with my friends about my infertility because I didn’t want to hide anything. To be honest though,  it did cause a lot of anxiety and hurt feelings because they just didn’t relate and  insensitive things were said. (Here’s a post I wrote about that called: Surrounded by Ignorance.) But I wonder if I would have had more anxiety trying to lie and not let anyone in to what was really going on.

So, here’s the poll! My very first one on this blog! :-)

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Friday Friend Link-Up ~ IRL Friends

   So In Real Life (IRL), many of my friends couldn’t relate to what I was going through when I was trying to have my kids. For the most part, they got pregnant quite easily. And, when I would try to explain the stress, the devastation and the heartache, they just didn’t get it. It wasn’t until after I was successful that I learned of friends IRL that were also having some trouble. One friend I supported had her son recently after enduring miscarriages and IVFs, and I featured her story here. Another friend is also now pregnant after an IUI and grueling tests. These friends can finally understand what I went through. It is a bond we now share.

   I wish I immersed myself into the blogging world then. Perhaps I would have made virtual friends who could have become friends in real life. I know that many of you have strong support holders. Perhaps some of them have been there for you your whole life, and others have recently supported you through your plight. I would love to hear your stories!

PhotobucketSo, I decided to have a Friday-Friend-Link-Up each week this month. This week’s topic will be IRL friends. Here’s how it will work:

  • Think of a post specifically about IRL friends who have impacted you during your infertility and helped ease your stress.
  • Write it up sometime this week before Friday, August 12th.
  • Share the link with your IRL friend(s) as a way of saying thanks for all they do/did
  • Come back on Friday to link up your post so others can read your story too!
  • Link back to this blog post to spread the word! Use the picture above!

 

That’s it! It may just give you more readers and help spread some love and inspiration to others! :-)

Here’s the schedule for the remainder of the month, so get your posts ready!

Virtual Friends ~ August 19th

Furry Friends ~ August 26th

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