Friends…they can be much more impartial when it comes to a listening ear and unsolicited advice. They won’t ask for every detail and you certainly don’t have to offer up the gross or more personal symptoms you may be experiencing (you know the ones that your mom or sister might ask about).
But they can also be caddy. So, be careful who you share your intimate secrets with and make sure it doesn’t spread like wild fire among the gossip train. Keep a select few in the know. The rest can get the vague response that you leave for your general acquaintances.
Unfortunately though, the “relating issue” that I wrote about yesterday in regards to family also applies here. Even if you try to explain your frustrations…most just don’t get it, especially if they had it quite easy in the baby making department. Save yourself the hurt and discuss shoes, reality TV or the next big outing with them instead.
Besides sharing info, a friend can also be a great “time-out” buddy from infertility. They can easily take your mind off the every day worries with a coffee break, shopping extravaganza, mani-pedi, or girl’s night out. Even if the break is short-lived, it is a great opportunity for a recharge.
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How have your friends supported you lately? Please leave a comment to discuss! 
